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Senestro13
June 14th, 2005, 04:11 PM
have you ever gone away on vaction with some freinds? while on vacation do you spend every waking moment with them...or are you ok with everyone doing what they want separately? what do you do if they dont' want to do anything without you and you'd rather have some time alone? do you aviod them during the timesyou want some alone time on the trip or do you grin and bear it?
jenvencop
June 15th, 2005, 04:55 AM
i think you should just tell them, or if your 2 scared suggest everyone do their own thing for a bit like buying suveniors(can't spell) and see their reaction. sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, if only i could take my own advice:)
Senestro13
June 15th, 2005, 12:27 PM
advice is always free and sane when we issue it out to otehrs but we never follow what we preach to others.
trust me on this one. i'm brutely honest, you'd think most people would aviod me cause of that.. but they seem to like that and are always in my hair...LOL.
i always do my own thing and tell my freinds they should do also.. but some of them just don't know what their own thing is.. and who want's to babysit some one while on your vacation?
i think you should just tell them, or if your 2 scared suggest everyone do their own thing for a bit like buying suveniors(can't spell) and see their reaction. sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, if only i could take my own advice:)
Clasione
June 15th, 2005, 04:45 PM
Generally I don't go away with anyone that I'm not completely satisfied spending all of my time with...
Who wants conflict or confrontation while on vacation...
Senestro13
June 15th, 2005, 05:21 PM
that's tru, but some times a little drama isn't so bad...it's a catch 21 sometimes.
Generally I don't go away with anyone that I'm not completely satisfied spending all of my time with...
Who wants conflict or confrontation while on vacation...
jenvencop
June 17th, 2005, 11:01 AM
you could also discuss the trip before you take it so that way no one is surprised. i'm not a fan of taking trips with a group of friends either, it sounds good in theory but in actuallity it sux. one time a group of friends and I went away for the weekend and the whole trip two of my friends who were dating just kept arguing. It was a mess, every minute of the trip felt like an eternity:)
Senestro13
June 17th, 2005, 03:19 PM
most times in the past i'd meet some of my freidns at whatever location. and we happen to be there together for a few days before we go our different ways....i rememerb one trip to SOBE.. i waited to long and had to book at another hotel fromt hem(they were at the cleavlander and i was in some other hell whole as they put it.. well i got a frideg in my room and 2 beds for myself and they had a fan and a broke a/c.. anyway the 3 of us would meet up during hte day go to the beach and tsee what was going on with the girls there. then after a while of that we'd head back to our rooms... after a few minutes i'd get a phone call from bot the otehr 2 guys.. begging me to switch rooms with the other guy. they both called me behind each othe's back. i was like hell no, you 2 are best buds.. your stuck with each other...lol
it turned out all 3 of us were getting on each others's nerves so we'd take shifts, 2 of us would hang out and the thrid would do whatever...lol till the final day we hit a club, got drunk and forgot all the beef... but i still rememebr that...LOL:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
you could also discuss the trip before you take it so that way no one is surprised. i'm not a fan of taking trips with a group of friends either, it sounds good in theory but in actuallity it sux. one time a group of friends and I went away for the weekend and the whole trip two of my friends who were dating just kept arguing. It was a mess, every minute of the trip felt like an eternity:)
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