(GLEN COVE, NY) The Holocaust Memorial and Tolerance Center recognizes Tanvi Abbi as Upstander of the Month for September 2013.
“Life is like a photograph, you need the negatives to develop.” – Author unknown. This is the motto Tanvi Abbi lives by. Tanvi is 16 years old, beginning her junior year at the Mary Louis Academy. She resides in Searingtown and has experienced bullying most of her life. Tanvi says, “It was terrible . . . but it has shaped me by giving me great insight about facing and overcoming struggles in life.” This bright young woman believes in working for a better future and advocates finding a silver lining in every situation.
Due to her experience with bullying, Tanvi became actively involved with the organization “The Inner You.” Through the organization, she donates her time to work with other victims of bullying in order to create a shared space through building acceptance, respect and positive self-esteem. According to Tanvi, “Having insight about what it’s like to feel alone and misunderstood is what allows me to nurture and create bonds that have impacted people in many different ways.”
Tanvi realizes that helping victims is one step in bullying prevention and response. In addition, we must use education as the key ingredient in preventing bullying and to empower students to be Upstanders. “Education about bullying is the only way to end this epidemic. People have to know that bullying is more than just a rite of passage or just ‘kids being kids.” Tanvi brings her compassion and experience to everyone she meets and exemplifies all that encompasses an Upstander.
Each month the Center accepts nominations from teachers, civic leaders, family and friends of a Long Island youth that has implemented the HMTC’s mission by advocating respect for all people. The student’s action as an Upstander could be one of intervention or prevention. To nominate a student for “Upstander of the Month” or learn more, email Jennifer Carpenter Low at jenniferlow@holocaust-nassau.
About the Holocaust Memorial and Tolerance Center of Nassau County
The Holocaust Memorial and Tolerance Center of Nassau County is the pre-eminent Holocaust resource on Long Island, with a contemporary museum and is one of the largest and most comprehensive education program providers in the region. Since 2007, nearly 210,000 students, educators, employers and law enforcement personnel have participated in the Holocaust Memorial and Tolerance Center’s education programs.
Under construction and scheduled to open in January 2014, the Claire Friedlander Education Institute will accommodate four classrooms with state-of-the-art audio-visual aids and cutting edge technical equipment for specialized Holocaust video-conferencing programs and a wide variety of workshops for youth and adults.
With the Louis Posner Memorial Library, the Center offers over 7,000 volumes of Holocaust, genocide, multicultural, anti-bias and anti-bullying material for youth and adults, from Kindergarten through post-graduate researchers. It is the largest such collection on Long Island. Additional information is available online at www.holocaust-nassau.org.




Tracy Garrison-Feinberg, Senior Program Associate at Facing History and Ourselves in New York and new Director of the Holocaust Memorial and Tolerance Center of Nassau County’s (HMTC) Claire Friedlander Education Institute.
